
Philly Proud. Temple Tough.
Those were the words that were plastered all around campus as I started my freshman year at Temple University.
The entire freshman class all felt the same way. We were excited, awkward and anxious. We had wide eyes, and perhaps the best part, was that we had no idea what the next two semesters were going to bring us, or what those four simple words would end up meaning when summer rolled around.
Let me rewind a little bit. I, like most of my friends I ended up meeting at college, was from a small town with a high school graduating class of about 200. And I, just like most of my classmates, could not wait to get the hell out of that small town.
Some had their eyes set west, while others headed out to big cities relatively close to the area at colleges like Penn State, Pitt, St. John, Villanova, etc. Some had no idea where they were going, they just knew they wanted out badly. Almost like a cigarette that dropped out of a car on a highway. It smashes, scatters and burns out without anyone knowing.
I, however, found myself in the heart of Philadelphia.
As the first few weeks started to pan out, I had already seen myself going through a few changes. The biggest, was switching my major the third day of classes to Computer Science after a Cyberspace Gen Ed class mesmerized me.
The nights were fun, but after about a month, I felt like I still wasn’t getting the full college experience. I was seeing a lot of friends from high school that were starting to consider transferring from the university they currently attended, and I questioned if I should be doing the same.
Then, something changed. I’m not sure what it was or how it happened, but I’m sure glad it did. I started to hang out with two of my friends from high school that went to Temple. Those two clowns, along with one my roommates who was also considering transferring but then decided against it as well, became my core and closest group of friends I think I’ve ever had and brought some of the best times of my entire life.
We started to do everything together. Our day had a set schedule. We knew exactly where/when everyone had class. We worked out eating schedules based on that. We would go to the gym, head to library together in the evening to do get some work done, and perhaps the most memorable part of a weekday was fourth meal at 11 p.m.
The weekends became much more exciting. We the four of us all brought in a few friends we met during the first few weeks, and all of a sudden, we would have 20+ people in our dorm before we headed out on weekends.
We all put down money on a house for sophomore year and before we knew it, the semester was over. We actually had so much fun, the only time we went home was for Thanksgiving. We left for winter break with even bigger expectations for the spring.
Spring started off with a bang. The biggest part that I remember was the fact we started to use the city a lot. Impromptu trips to South Street became a norm. School basketball games, Phillies & Sixers, concerts, Dayglow, Beer Olympics, Crate Race, beach volleyball. There was just so much to do, again we never went home until spring break.
We became good friends with a group of about six guys that lived on the floor above me. That was for the better, except some of the girls that hung around thought we all got a little too rowdy at times, but boys will be boys.
I don’t mean for this to turn into a rant about how much fun college was for me, or to brag about how I the best year of my life came to an end. I actually decided to write this because through all of this I learned a few things.
Each and every person I met at Temple brought something new and different. Everyone came from similar, yet very different backgrounds. And I learned there is a lot more out there and some people have very different upbringings.
I also was able to snag a job building mobile apps in Center City for the summer. Some of the other guys have jobs in Philadelphia as well, and all were brought to us by Temple.
When I look back, we were all just a rag-tag group of kids that were just trying to have good time, yet we grew so much in one year together.
I’m living alone, in a house, with a 9-5 job, in the city. And the crazy part is, some of the others are doing the exact same thing.
We all had some hard things to deal with as we went through the year. As some people know, Temple isn’t the safest area to live in PA. We were on our own for the first time, we had to balance jobs, school (I also learned you have to study in college), friends, relationships, etc. Looking back, there were a lot of things I can’t believe I was able to handle, but Temple seems to bring a lot of intangibles that you don’t realize.
I came to realization that growing up means watching your heroes turn human in front you. Some people that I looked up to in high school I realized could have set out to be a lot more.
I finally now understand what those four words mean. When I was in the car heading down to Temple last August, I had no idea where it would take me. I had one goal in mind of making it out of my hometown. That goal is accomplished, and I could not of had more fun achieving it.
One thing is for sure, I’m not going to be running away from anything. Sometimes as weird as that place became at times, it made me, me.
I am definitely not ashamed to say that I am Philly Proud and Temple Tough.




